Your wedding is about YOU and what you want your wedding to look and feel like. No two weddings at Came are ever the same. Our team is not just a collection of people – we are a family. We are small enough to care, yet collectively we have decades of experience in weddings, hospitality and hosting.  
Came is a family home and has been in Rags’ family since it was built in 1754. The history of the house is incredibly interesting and Rags can't wait to talk to you about anything you would like to know during your stay.  

Your wedding is about YOU and what you want your wedding to look and feel like. No two weddings at Came are ever the same. Our team is not just a collection of people – we are a family. We are small enough to care yet collectively we have decades of experience in weddings, hospitality and hosting.  

Came is a family home and has been in Rags’ family since it was built in 1754. The history of the house is incredibly interesting and Rags can't wait to talk to you about anything you would like to know during your stay.  

Meet Melanie

Melanie is our Senior Wedding Manager and also owns Bellissimo Weddings which is a local, award-winning wedding planning and venue management business. She has over 15 years experience in planning and managing weddings and is regarded as one of the South’s leading Wedding Planners. Melanie worked with Came initially in her consultancy capacity to help launch it as a venue and has stayed on board ever since to look after weddings.  

Our Team

Meet Danielle

Danielle is our second Wedding Manager here at Came and has been part of the Came wedding journey since it began. She has worked for Bellissimo Weddings for over 8 years and has been working with Came House for the last 5 years.

Rags & George

Rags and George live at Came and welcome you and your loved ones with open arms. You are invited to treat their home as yours for your wedding weekend. You might even find them making you breakfast during your stay!

Ju

Our treasured House Manager. You will meet Ju on Friday when you arrive and she will be with you throughout your weekend. Ju is a hugely integral part of Came and our weddings and you will see her friendly face throughout your stay.

Skinner

Our “Everything Man”. You will see him throughout your weekend. From greeting you and your guests on arrival and helping with luggage, to assisting Melanie and Danielle with everything they need on your wedding day, Skinner is your man and nothing is too much trouble for him. 


At Came we care deeply about all of our couples and their weddings. We go above and beyond to make sure that your wedding is not just a wedding – it's an experience. To us, you are one of our treasured couples and we want you and your guests to remember your wedding at Came for a lifetime.

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Throughout your wedding weekend at Came, you will be looked after by our trusted team

Our Team

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Danielle, Melanie, Rags, Ju, George, Skinner

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Dominique Bader Photography

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Meet DOUGAL

Dougal is our resident weeping beech tree. He is such an important part of the gardens here at Came and couples have a real love for him. Here are some facts about Dougal and how you can incorporate your love of Dougal into your wedding.
You can tell all the seasons of the year by his little habitat..first the snowdrops, then the primroses and then he buds up and bursts into the lime green canopy that darkens during the summer before shedding his leaves in the autumn.

Facts about Dougal

He is a weeping beech, and was planted c1890

Dougal used to be taller but was struck by lightening when the current owner’s mother was a child.





Dougal is one of the largest of his kind in the country

Named Dougal after the dog with the long hair in The Magic Roundabout – every great tree has to have a name – right?!


“We could not have pictured a better venue for our dream wedding. Thank you so much to everyone at Came House for being so helpful, friendly, attentive, and welcoming. It could not have been a more perfect weekend- what a blissful start to married life!”

– Mr & Mrs Davenport

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“Thank you for the most incredible day! It was our dream venue, and we couldn’t have asked for a better day. Came House really was built for parties!”

– David & Ana

“Thank you everyone at Came House for making our wedding day super special! We had such an amazing time- our dream wedding truly came true! The staff were all fantastic- super supportive, friendly, helpful, very accommodating and they made us feel so relaxed. All our guests said what a beautiful venue and setting to have a wedding. It was the PERFECT weekend! We can cherish the wonderful memories.”

– Mr & Mrs McLaren

“Wow! What can we say! Came is the dream venue- it was an honor to get married there. There are some people and places which leave the biggest print on your heart. Came House will be in our hearts and thoughts forever. Thank you Rags, George, Melanie, Ju and the whole team for making our day everything we’ve ever dreamt of.”

– Jazmine & Louie

"Thank you so much for a wonderful weekend- we couldn’t have asked for anything more! The house, grounds and setting were amazing- the children loved it and were so sad to leave."

– Toni & Tom

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Ceremony capacity outside:

165

Ceremony capacity inside:

 Your Choice of Styling

dog friendly

Easy access from London

Fresh breakfasts provided both mornings

Stunning

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Came House at a glance:

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Dining Capacity:

Bespoke made traditional marquee included with luxury toilets

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landscaped gardens for drinks reception and photos

Accommodation for up to 32

set over 14 luxury bedrooms

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Unique, historic Orangery
for elegant ceremonies

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